“Go therefore and make disciples of all nations…”
– Jesus
Sheldon (Disciple)
Krista (Disciple Maker)
In Matthew 28, Jesus Christ commissions us to make disciples who make disciples—it’s the most important purpose we have as Christ-followers. 1 to 1 Discipleship is a powerful way that Crosswinds helps believers grow as Jesus’ disciple. People who want to be discipled are matched with those who are ready, willing and able to disciple them.
The Disciple’s Role: They learn from, pray with, share questions, process truth, get to know and grow with a more mature believer based on Scripture.
The Disciple-Maker Role: They experience the joy of obeying God and living out our God-given purpose by sharing what they’ve learned and how they’ve been transformed by Jesus.
For more information about participating in One-to-One Discipleship, contact Discipleship Pastor Melissa Breyette.
Vince (Disciple Maker)
Elizabeth (Disciple)
Commonly Asked Questions
Who can be a disciple?
Anyone 18 or older who wants to grow in their relationship with Jesus and their role as his disciple and is willing to commit to the 1 to 1 discipleship process.
Who can be a disciple maker?
Anyone 18 or older who has committed their life to Christ, has a history of faithfulness, a mature understanding of God’s word, and a desire to grow spiritually by helping someone else grow as a disciple.
How do I get started?
Click the “Become a Disciple” or “Become a Disciple Maker” buttons above to complete a questionnaire that tells us more about you. This helps us determine who would be a good match for you, and how we can help equip you in either role.
Is there training for disciple makers?
Yes. You will receive training and be mentored and equipped before you’re matched with a disciple. You’ll be supported and mentored while you are discipling someone as well.
How is a disciple matched with a disciple maker?
We match you with someone with a similar background, interests, personality, etc. based on your discipleship questionnaire. This is a prayerful process where we seek to discern who God may be bringing together to form a discipleship relationship. We share the disciple’s questionnaire with a possible disciple maker who also prays about committing to a new disciple. If both parties are interested in moving forward, they meet to talk and see if their schedules, personalities, etc. are a “fit.” If both parties feel comfortable with the match, they begin the transformative 1 to 1 discipleship process.
How often to pairs meet?
We recommend meeting twice a month, but some pairs meet more often or less often, based on their availability.
What is a typical 1 to 1 session like?
Disciple and disciple maker connect in person at Starbucks, etc. (or sometimes via FaceTime or Zoom). They pray together, dig into the truth of God’s word using a curriculum called Small Circle, and talk through how to apply it to our lives. Safe conversations happen where questions are raised and processed together. Support and encouragement is given and meaningful spiritual friendships are formed. Sessions usually last 1-1.5 hours.
How long is the commitment?
Getting a solid biblical foundation and building transformative relationships takes time. Usually, a pair works together for 15-18 months, or less if they meet more consistently.
John (Disciple)
Still have questions?
Call the church office at 585-394-5857 or stop by Crosswinds Central before or after any of our weekend services. Click HERE for directions, hours and contact info.