In Kids Ministries, it is common to learn the Golden Rule: “Treat others as you would want to be treated.” This principle is terrific for children to grasp, but it’s also beneficial for all of us to follow, especially since it is a foundational tenet of Christian living. As stated by Jesus in Matthew 7:12, “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets,” the Golden Rule is a simple yet profound teaching that urges us to actively love and serve others as we wish to be treated. It is not merely a moral ideal, but a call to practical action that reflects the character of Christ.
Practicing the Golden Rule demands intentional love. Jesus commands in John 13:34-35, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this, all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” Love is more than a feeling; it is an action. We can embody this by showing kindness in our daily interactions. This holds true whether through encouraging words, acts of service, or simply listening with genuine concern.
For instance, in a world where impatience is typical, responding with grace rather than frustration can serve as a powerful testimony. Treating colleagues and classmates fairly and compassionately at work or school reflects how we wish to be treated. In family life, offering forgiveness instead of holding onto grudges showcases Christlike love.
The Golden Rule also compels believers to serve others selflessly. Philippians 2:3-4 reminds us, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others as more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to your own interests but also to the interests of others.” This involves being proactive in addressing needs by offering assistance to a struggling neighbor, caring for the sick, or supporting those facing financial difficulties.
Embracing this principle can be incredibly challenging when dealing with difficult people. However, Jesus calls His followers to a higher standard: “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44). Instead of seeking revenge or harboring bitterness, believers are encouraged to show grace and patience. We can achieve this by responding kindly when wronged and pursuing reconciliation rather than retaliation. Proverbs 15:1 states, “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” In tense situations, responding with humility and wisdom often helps to de-escalate conflict and demonstrates that we are followers of Christ.
Ultimately, practicing the Golden Rule is not just about being good to others. It is about reflecting Jesus’ love. As 1 John 4:19 states, “We love because He first loved us.” Our ability to treat others well stems from the grace and power we have received through Christ. When believers actively, empowered by God, live out this principle, they shine as lights in a dark world (Matthew 5:16), drawing others toward the hope found in Jesus. We make the Golden Rule a daily reality by intentionally loving, serving selflessly, and extending grace in conflict. In doing so, we fulfill Christ’s command and bear witness to the transforming power of the gospel. Soli Deo Gloria (Glory to God Alone)!